“Police in Florida, found a one week old puppy buried alive”
reads a post on the face book scrawl that travels past my awareness. It’s eyes were not even open yet, an
officer had heard its cries, followed the sound and revealed the newborn, who
is now being fed with a baby bottle and is expected to thrive.
Having had the companionship of intensely loving and loyal
animals for the majority of my life, I am always deeply affected by these
stories.
I wonder at the madness that produces such behavior, until I
remember that I once carried self harm born of suffering. Having been born in a female body, with the less aggressive
effects of estrogen, I did not act out upon others…would not have considered
doing that. But I treated myself
to such poor experience, that madness would have been the only way to describe
it.
I don’t value telling the stories anymore, of the many ways
in which I acted out my self hatred. They are so irrelevant to the life I lead now; it
might as well have been an entirely different one…(perhaps this is the meaning
of reincarnation?)
I include it here, only so that there is some hint for you
to follow of the deep freedom that is possible, when the life in question is no
longer being lived from the limited and limiting perspective of the personal
self.
We imagine that the full embrace of the Universal, within
each of us, will some how bleed life of its hum. And I must admit that there were stages I went through, that
did indeed; drain the hum right out of things. I suppose that is the fundamental value of a teacher – they
possess the direct experience to support you, in the continuation of self-discovery,
by telling you about how it was for them.
The rare teachers of true freedom, (anyone who promises you greatness,
wealth, happiness, any other form of marketing hype, or is going to “teach” you
anything is someone who has not touched the Universal within), must be
discerned by what they do not promise.
In today’s environment,
these teachers are often called non-duality teachers. My Beloved Teacher, active well before non-duality came into
vogue called it “Whole Seeing”, to quote from the Tao Te Ching:
“Free from desire, you realize the mystery.
Caught in desire, you see only the
manifestations.”
A non-duality
teacher is someone freed from the desire to have life be any other way than what the current moment experience presents
itself as, and in that deep acceptance, they realize the deep mystery that all
things are in harmony in the Tao.
A-L-L things…
Even…puppies
buried alive…
You will miss
the mark by a mile, if you confuse acceptance with approval.
Acceptance is
the strongest force on the planet, there is quite literally nothing that can
overcome it, nothing can capture it, force its hand, restrain it, coral it, or
win over it.
Nothing…anywhere…ever…
The conditioned
mind is forever confusing acceptance with approval. It is one of the many ways that the conditioned mind holds
sway over our lives and keeps us imprisoned in suffering. Approval is the active form of liking something. It isn’t possible for the average
person to “like” discovering that a puppy has been buried alive, there is no
place inside the average person’s lexicon, that an act of such cruelty,
perpetrated on such innocence, could ever
be liked. (Even those made mad
by their minds, in all likelihood do not “like” it.) But it can be accepted.
Why?
Because it is
already so, and being so, it exists in the world, and existing in the world,
means it is a part of the tapestry that weaves itself into this
beautiful/horrible world in which we find ourselves. When we argue against what has already arrived we lose our capacity to stay grounded and whole.
And that… is “whole seeing”. When whole seeing has been
arrived at, action is guided and directed by the Source, and thus becomes
healing rather than divisive. Thus
one can work tirelessly on behalf of abused animals, in this case, while still
feeling deep acceptance for the fact that there exists in the world a thing
such as this.
Your life and
mine are beautiful/horrible. Your
life and mine are good/awful, sweet/sad, wonderful/nasty, and if you bring a
full measure of acceptance to that truth, it will set you free, and potentially
everyone you meet.
Acceptance is a
life long process. I find that my
capacity to accept my life grows daily, or perhaps even hourly. Sometimes I can watch its head
stretching toward the sun, seizing the moment and growing toward the
light. Here is the true meaning of
“carpe deim”. That term is almost
always used in conjunction with outer achievement, to win the race, or the war,
or the prize. But I have come to
see that “seizing the day” is about a moment-by-moment acceptance of the
current experience in which I find myself.
I remember
quite clearly when I first began to understand what acceptance meant, and how
it is the means by which we stay in the “Now” to quote the most well-known
non-duality teacher.
Deeply addicted
to my own thinking, when my mind first began to slow down and I could manage a
few moments of clear awareness, I was alternately baffled and angry, “there is
nothing going on in the here and now”, I thought to myself…and certainly
nothing of any real interest.
Bored up to my
eyeballs, absent the drama that I was so attenuated to by my internal story
telling of she did this, and he did that dialogue…I could find no value in the
here and now, and the quiet solitude that was knocking at my door.
But as my
capacity to live in a quiet mind began to grow, I have discovered it is even
possible to dwell in silence even when my mind is speaking to me, I don’t know
quite how to describe that, but it is a form of rest, or relaxation, even as my
mind is burbling about something or other, there is a soft yielding in the
background. A sense of home, or
safety, or sanctuary…a quiet stillness that defies explanation, exits under or
behind the volume of thinking.
This sanctuary allows me to accept, never approve, but rather
accept, the truth that we live in a world where lovely, innocent, loyalty, can
be brutalized in an entirely uncivilized manner. A world where deep pain breaks the surface of a mind, which
it has possessed and forces an action of such intensity, and such madness.
Again from the Tao:
“Know the personal,
yet keep to the
impersonal:
accept the world as it
is.
If you accept the world,
the Tao will be luminous
inside you
and you will return to
your primal self.
When the Tao is lost,
there is goodness.
When goodness is lost, there is morality.
When morality is lost,
there is ritual.
Ritual is the husk of true
faith,
the beginning of chaos.
Therefore the Master
concerns himself
with the depths and not
the surface,
with the fruit and not the flower.
He has no will of his
own.
He dwells in reality,
and lets all illusions
go.”
The primal illusion is
that a thing that does exist, should not exist. This is the foundation upon which the conditioned mind is
born. We suffer when we are
possessed by a belief that a thing that exists should not, in fact, be so. Thus our primary spiritual motivation,
if we are intent on ridding ourselves of suffering, should be to unlearn all
of our beliefs. What is so, is already so, learning to lean into that fact, frees us from judgement, self-harm, criticism, and comparison...freed from these we become supple, open, clear, and whole.
“When the Tao is lost,
there is goodness”, the Tao, or the unified whole, when broken apart by the perceiving,
conditioned, and judging mind begins to break apart reality into relative
conditions. Good and bad, ugly and
beautiful, poor and rich, sickness and heath, this relative existence is
fraught with suffering and homesickness as the deep unitive whole, from which
we source, knows no such relativity.
Again from the
Tao:
“What does it mean that hope is as hollow as fear?
Hope and fear are both
phantoms
that arise from thinking
of the self.
When we don’t see the self
as self,
what do we have to fear?
Stop thinking, and end
your problems.
What difference between
yes and no?
What difference between
success and failure?
Must you value what others
value,
avoid what others avoid?
How ridiculous!”
The Tao gives birth to all
beings,
nourishes them, maintains
them,
cares for them, comforts them, protects them,
takes them back to itself,
creating without
possessing,
acting without expecting,
guiding without
interfering.
That is why love of the
Tao
is in the very nature of
things.”
- Tao Te Ching, Stephen Mitchell translation.
The Tao, “takes all things
back to itself”, herein is our comfort, our home, our salvation, our
redemption. The Tao is capable of
embracing a mind so dark that it is intent on killing innocence, this is the meaning,
action, and activity of the true way, the deep path, the ageless wisdom, the
Masters who have walked among us…
“Other people have what
they need;
I alone possess nothing.
I alone drift about,
like someone without a
home.
I am like an idiot, my
mind is so empty.
I alone don’t know.
I drift like a wave on the
ocean,
I blow as aimless as the
wind.” -Lao Tse, Tao Te Ching. Stephen Mitchell translation.
It is my great good
fortune that I have begun to “blow as aimless as the wind”, and to come into a fuller measure of “not
knowing”, here is my fortune, my rest, my home, my wealth. I am so glad that you journey with me
through these pages, that we share this aimlessness for so brief a moment…
Adayre R. Miller
9/29/12
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