“Faith is the bridge between where I am and the place God is taking me.”
- Author Unknown
I am changing the focus of my essays, as they are needed now
in ways that I could not have understood, when I began writing for the approval
of others. They will not be about
my desire to understand, as currently understanding is quite low on my priority
list. They will not be about what I
learned from my old teacher, or my new one. They will be about the need to describe the bridge between
“where I am and the place God is taking me”.
I have recently been laid off, again...
My employer sent me an email offer to come in for a “chat”; it had the tone and quality of
a request for friendship, but instead it was to be a conversation about ending
my employment and being laid off from her business. That chat never took place,
as I was out of the office and unavailable when the request came in…so, much
later that same day, I received an email that ended my employment and took with
it my income stream. And so, I am
adrift again. Pressured from all
sides by poverty, and the need for the strength to face that poverty.
My feet feel like lead. I am alone in new and much more provocative ways.
In days past, alone then as well, and even more frightened…I
would soothe myself with images and internal visual movies, starring me as the
returning hero. Redemption,
rescue, hope, help, the star of the show I envisioned all manner of positive
outcomes. What our culture calls,
“following your dreams” and being “passionate” about your goals.
But now, older, wiser, more seasoned…I no longer rely on the
capacity to visualize the future, as a means of dealing with the present.
Each day, I must rise and face myself anew. I must discover within the will to tend
to the days needs, while also feeling the anxiety that hums just below the
surface, the quarter turn volume of the idea that the clock is ticking and time
is running out on my capacity to feed myself, clothe myself, shelter and abide.
It is a reckless and potent choice I have made, to live in
the face of my fears. To honor the
sorrow of the loss I have sustained, while deciding to cast my lot on one throw
of the dice.
With the job market as bad, or worse, than it was the first
time I was laid off, I have decided to shorten the trip to the cliff's edge by
spending money I quite literally don’t have, to attempt a shot at the return to
self-employment.
I did not succeed, financially at least, at being self
employed the first 15 years I tried it.
I could attempt to parse out the reason…but why bother? That is not what these pages are for.
If I am to be entirely alone, if I am to stand on the very
precipice of the edge of a financial cliff…I might as well sing…
I have above my computer, a quote from a friend. It is written next to a dancing woman
drawn with such exuberance that she has six feet and four arms, to show the
movement of her dance and the excitement of her joy. The quote reads:
She spoke in exclamations…now
that she had found her voice.
I hope to move from the place of sorrow and anxiety that now
populates my experience, to the one depicted by my many limbed and joyful
dancer.
I intend to write about that journey, for my sake and mine
alone…if it serves you to journey with me, I welcome the company. If not, God Speed and Be Well.
Yours Truly,
Ronni
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